Getting Stuffed on Thanksgiving
Thanksgiving is one of my favorite holidays, but not for the reason you’d expect. Of course I love the food and family time, it’s wonderful. For me though, the best part of Thanksgiving is what happens...
View ArticleLiving with a Phone Sex Operator
When I revealed to my best friend that I recently started working as a phone sex operator (PSO), she was supportive but immediately raised a concern. “Doesn’t Declan mind?” Declan is my partner. We’ve...
View ArticleFat Shamed By My Surgeon
I walked into the Emergency Room at Riddle Memorial Hospital in Media, PA on Wednesday May 1st with lower abdominal pain. I walked out of the hospital on May 4th minus one appendix and feeling...
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Coming Out Kinky - Interview with Jean Franzblau
If you haven't heard, Bawdy Storytelling is the place for pervs and kinksters and other sex positive people to connect. Sometimes, that means an awesome hookup. Other times, that means meeting someone...
View ArticleSeparating PSO Life from Real Life
Ring. Ring.After working as a PSO for three months, I have a Pavlovian response to hearing a phone ring. My pulse quickens, and I instinctively drop into my “sexy voice.” Before I open my mouth to say...
View ArticleSickness, Depression, and the New Year
I hate to start 2014 off with a bit of a downer post, but you all know that my commitment to transparency trumps everything else.
View ArticleSo You Want To Be A PSO...
I thought it would be helpful to provide a little career advice for the budding PSOs among my readers. Does the thought of getting paid to talk dirty warm your pervy little heart (and possibly your...
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Hot Steamy Sexy Sex
I have to be honest, I've been feeling a little guilty about calling this a sex blog when I don't talk about having sex that often. So since I had a pretty terrific experience last night, it seems only...
View ArticleLearning to Love My Naked Body
I have struggled with body confidence my entire life. I've been 132lbs and I've been over 250lbs. One thing I found that was incredibly empowering for me was learning to be comfortable naked. I did...
View ArticleLiving with an STI Interview on Sex and Happiness
A few weeks ago, Laurie Handlers contacted me and asked if I was interested in being interviewed on her radio show, Sex and Happiness. Since I'm quite a fan of Laurie's show, I happily accepted! I...
View ArticleReview: Lovehoney Happy Rabbit
Have you ever been poked in the vulva? It's not terribly pleasant. I don't want to think "wow, this really hurts" as I'm masturbating. Let me explain how this happened. A few months ago, Lovehoney...
View ArticleSneak Peek at my Upcoming Guide!
I've been hinting for weeks about my upcoming educational guide and it's almost finished! It's called "A Feminist's Guide to Phone Sex" and it goes live in less than a week! I've been working with...
View ArticleA Feminist's Guide to Phone Sex is Live!
Did you know that I'm now a published author? I didn't get to publicize it as much as I meant to since I've been traveling for the past 14 days, but now that I'm back home in LA, I can share the great...
View ArticleIt's been a while
I know it's been a while since I've had a substantive blog post, and I'm about to remedy that. Between the new job and some developments in my primary relationship, I've been incredibly busy and both...
View ArticleWhen Non-Monogamy Triggers Insecurities
Last March, my partner Declan and I opened up our relationship. It was my first experience with ethical non-monogamy and I was both excited and scared. Would either of us get jealous? Would it work?...
View ArticleShailene Woodley Has No Fucking Clue What Feminism Is
I came across this headline on Time's website: "Shailene Woodley on Why She's Not a Feminist." Now admittedly, before this morning, I didn't know anything about Shailene Woodley. But now I know one...
View ArticleCarnalcopia has arrived!
It was an idea born after a weekend of sleep deprivation. In our delirium, Katie Mack and I decided that our discussions were funny and insightful and that they were worthy of recording and publishing....
View ArticleCarnalcopia's Media Debut
One of the most important things I learned in Tristan Taormino's Sex Educator Bootcamp was that press releases are everything. She was right.
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The Cannabis Diaries - An Introduction
It's time I come out to you, my faithful readers. I smoke pot. I didn't try it until I was in grad school, around age 23, and I smoked intermittently until I moved to California. Suddenly, I had a MMJ...
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